Tuesday, September 11, 2012

5 Warning Signs Your Man Isn't Happy

If you see these signs, you might want to start running, because he's already planning his dash.

1. Disassociation
When a guy is feeling bored or uninterested, one of the first things he'll do is block you out. He'll stop texting or calling as much, if not stop all together, and his texts will either be drastically or gradually shortened. For example, his texts could take a downturn from "No baby nothing's wrong I promise everything's okay honey I swear." all the way to "No. I'm fine." and "oh. sorry." For one thing, men NEVER use periods. When a period is put at the end of a suddenly short text, you know it just got real. Whether it be on your end, or his.

2. No Mo Hugs
If your man just follows you into the house without a hug or a kiss, his mind is on business, not you or his interest in you. Little gestures like these are vital in a woman's love life and if they are absent, we can feel used, unappreciated, and obviously, a push factor to our boys. If your guy no longer does these little gestures to ensue his interest in you, he's either saving them for someone else or simply no longer finds you worthy of them. Keep your eyes peeled ladies.

3. Frequent Bickering
From simple disagreements to full on tooth and nail battles (not literally speaking, but if it is literal in your relationship, call 1−800−799−SAFE(7233) or 911). Small tiffs indicate an annoyance he has with you or even you with him. Sometimes if not always, it comes from both directions. Not only are these little arguments a warning sign, but fights that end in not speaking, sleeping separately, or even one of you storming out and away. This is one of the many signs of danger that more often than not leads to a breakup/divorce.

4.Truth Telling
Obviously, honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship. But if your boyfriend/husband starts suddenly being blatant and hurtful in opinions on something you're wearing or the way your hair looks, it's just an easy way for him to insult you. He could either no longer care about preserving your feelings, or is making it a point to destroy them.

5. Avoidance
Not to be confused with number 1, avoidance arises when your man no longer feels the emotional connection with you to share anything going on in his life. Once this connection is gone, it can be very difficult but more often impossible to maintain or revitalize your physical connection at all.

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